Boys, hey.
There are moments in life when we realize
we’ve done things in the past…
not just wrong —
truly bad.
And now more and more information comes in.
More understanding — about women,
about children,
about family.
And the alpha starts to close in on himself.
He remembers exactly where and how he messed up.
Guys.
I need you to hear me.
For real.
Not brush it off.
Sit down.
Grab your balls and be ready to listen.
You’re not kids anymore.
You can carry responsibility now.
I don’t need to wipe your noses all the time.
You can hold your own ground.
Part of growing up — including spiritually —
is taking responsibility.
A bad action was done.
It happened.
And then it starts:
“If only I had…”
“I should have…”
“I needed to…”
Yes.
You should have.
You had to.
But that’s only one side.
The other side is reality.
Assumptions aren’t reality.
They’re just illusions.
Reality is this:
back then, the alpha didn’t have the knowledge.
Back then, he was different.
That was a different man.
Would he act like that now?
No.
But that’s still a hypothesis.
Fact is — back then he didn’t have the information.
So he acted the way he did.
At that moment, it was the only option he had.
Yes — a stupid, ugly one.
But in that head,
in that version of him,
it was the only one.
Guys.
Stop arguing.
Start listening, damn it.
Shut up.
I said — the fact already exists.
That’s it.
There’s a principle of apology:
When we’re wrong, we apologize — sincerely, truly — but once.
If the person we hurt keeps coming back with their pain again and again,
they’re trying to keep you in it.
That’s not right.
An apology is given once.
You have to respect yourself.
And respect the other person.
Stop sitting in it.
Stop drowning.
Stop blaming yourselves.
I said stop.
Stop arguing with me.
This issue is closed the first time.
After that — it’s manipulation and drowning in pain.
I’m not talking about actions.
If we can help — we help through actions.
But not through endless apologies.
Don’t go back and keep telling stories about how bad you were.
This conversation needs to be closed, guys.
First of all — the alpha cuts it off.
We apologized.
We offered help.
We’re ready to take the consequences.
That’s enough.
You need to find the courage, boys.
Look at yourself in the mirror
and go through all of this once.
Say it to your own face —
how much you hate what you did,
how disappointed you are in yourself — all of it.
Do whatever you need — but once.
After that — it’s done.
You pull yourselves together
and you don’t go back there again.
Stop sitting in it.
The mind loves to chew.
So does the paradigm.
Images will come back.
Thoughts will come back.
Pull yourselves together and rip it out at the root.
That’s enough.
We need to learn mercy —
including toward ourselves.
Let’s look at the facts:
Fine.
Let’s say you sit there and keep crying —
“how sorry I am, how sorry I am…”
“If only…”
Alright.
A year passes.
Two.
A hundred.
And what?
Does it get easier?
I doubt it.
I’ve given you the alternative.
We accept it.
We cut it out at the root. Period.
And we cut it out of the field completely.
So there’s no situation where an ex shows up
and starts the same story again
about how terrible the alpha was.
He was — and that’s it.
He’s not that anymore.
The issue is closed.
Alright, I just got out of the spa.
Relaxed, satisfied, feeling good.
Gonna watch something now.
Probably Aladdin.
So if you don’t mind,
I’ll happily sink into the strong, steady hands of an alpha.
At 11 — we might go over releasing all this “regret about the past.”
At 16 — I’ll put you through some practice.
We’ll shut down deviant behavior and all the psychos.
At 20:00 —
we’ll sort things out with the girls.
I don’t like what’s going on there.
We need to restore love.