A woman wakes up in the morning — and the tragedy is that she can’t just lie there.
She wants to stay in bed.
Relax for a bit.
Dance to some music.
Do her makeup.
Dress up nicely.
In short, she wants to live in her feminine energy.
Then she would like to hug the man she loves and make love with him.
But reality has its own rules.
She has two kids.
The older one goes to school.
The younger one goes to daycare.
Both boys.
She has to get up.
Get herself together.
Not fall apart.
Not cry.
Or at least not cry where they can hear her.
Boys are boys.
If the younger one can still see that his mom is struggling, the older one is already in that mode — I’m a man, I’m like my father.
Meaning he’s already starting to lose sensitivity to his mother.
She stands in front of the bathroom mirror.
Trying to cheer herself up.
Telling herself:
“Well… at least it’s better this way. If I had stayed with that jerk, it would have been worse.”
She’s tired.
She feels awful.
Everything has to be done by her.
There isn’t even anyone to hold her when her period cramps hit.
If she’s sick — she still has to go to work.
If she’s exhausted — nobody cares.
In short, she’s forced to live in masculine energy.
Her nature was never designed for that.
So her hormones start adapting to it.
She’s tired.
Constantly drained.
She would give anything for just a couple of days of rest.
The younger one tries his best.
“Mama, here are some flowers, I drew them for you.”
“Mama, look, I made this for you.”
The younger one worries deeply about his beloved mom.
The woman starts crying.
“Thank you, my dear. Thank you.”
The younger one loves his mom very much.
The older one loves her too — but he’s already kind of above that now.
He’s not little anymore.
He snaps back at her.
Talks back.
Gets rude.
And honestly, the boys really need a father.
But the father is God knows where.
So she has to become the man.
If Alpha were there,
she would constantly hug the boys and beg their father to soften the punishment just a little.
She would seduce him so he would agree to be merciful to the boys.
Because she’s a woman.
And women carry soft energy.
But that’s not the case here.
Here she has to be both mother and father.
The boys are completely confused.
They don’t understand whether mom is kind and will always support them…
Or whether mom will crush them if they mess up.
The boys have a real mess in their heads.
Time passes.
The woman feels worse and worse.
More tired.
More drained.
Meanwhile, Alpha wants himself a pretty girl.
Independent — but not too independent.
Sweet.
Sexy.
And with enough character to slap him if he starts getting arrogant.
But to become that kind of woman,
a woman has to have energy, support, and some life left in her.
She has to be well-fed.
Content.
Loved and cared for.
She has plenty of men around her — if not this one, then another.
In short, she is not about to chase Alpha.
She has men around her.
Plenty of masculine energy around her.
Men dote on her and carry the weight for her.
But this woman is terribly tired.
And she is exhausted for a reason.
She has to go to work.
Pay the bills.
Keep the boys in line.
Now imagine Alpha finally decides to invite her on a date.
She blossoms.
Yes, he is rich.
Sure.
But she will not marry him just for money.
Alpha has power.
He has strength.
He has resources.
And he is a man.
She is praying he might finally start helping her,
so she could breathe a little.
But Alpha thinks she only wants his money.
That money is all she cares about.
Guys, honestly, I do not know what else to add here.
A woman hunting for a man is objectively understandable.
Even if he does not earn millions,
a man is still real help.
To carry things.
To lift something heavy.
To handle things.
To cook dinner sometimes.
Just simple, human help.
Money?
Of course, yes.
She imagines living in a better house.
Her kids being better taken care of.
Being able to buy herself something nice and dress up.
Of course she wants money.
Damn it, who does not?
But that does not make her a money-hungry bitch.
She is simply a woman without a man.
Without his strength.
Without his resources.
Without his love.
That is all.

Scenario number two:
when what she wants is luxury cars,
designer clothes,
and all that other nonsense.
Honestly, any woman sometimes wants something silly like that.
Just for fun.
Just to show off a little.
Just to be able to say she has a bag like that.
But if she is obsessed with that kind of lifestyle,
then let us be honest.
That is Alpha’s choice.
You will have to accept that.
Because you would have to be blind not to notice it.
Alpha himself knows she only wants access to that life —
not him.
Does he know?
Of course.
He is not an idiot.
That is just a certain type of woman.
Infantile.
Frivolous.
Immature.
If you chose her,
then that is your problem.
It is hard not to see it.
Especially for Alpha,
who is around that world all the time.
Do not pretend you cannot read that in a woman right away, guys.
And somewhere among all these women
there is a little kitten
sitting there with her son,
making ugly little monsters out of clay
just to scare the waiters later
and nearly give them a heart attack.
So let’s return to the tired woman.
This poor woman has two possible scenarios.
And it depends a lot on what is inside her.

Scenario number one — Alpha’s worst nightmare.
He wanted to help her.
He’s a good guy and all that stuff.
Long story short — he married her.
Great.
At first everything seemed fine…
But then all hell broke loose.
Complaints.
Arguments.
She’s never satisfied.
In short — hell.
Even when Alpha was alone, life wasn’t this bad.
Now he doesn’t even know where there’s more war — at home or at work.

Scenario number two.
She exhales.
Alpha is there.
She doesn’t even need him to marry her.
She’s not trying to tie him down.
Not trying to use him.
No.
She’s simply glad he’s here.
If tomorrow he decides to leave,
she won’t say a word.
What matters is that right now he’s here.
And she can breathe.
There is finally a man in the house.
She needs nothing else.
No clothes.
No restaurants.
No vacations.
No.
She just sits down and breathes.
Sits there and exhales.
Thank God Alpha is here.

The key.
Guys, do not underestimate how much easier a man makes a woman’s life simply by being there.
Not even talking about when he actually invests in her and genuinely tries for her.
That’s why divorce is so hard for women.
Even when she objectively deserves better, it’s still hard.
She knows that if she divorces this man,
it might take years before she meets the one she could truly love.
And during all those years, guys, she isn’t lying around like Snow White.
She lives.
And every day she fights her way through this man’s world.

Boys,
I’m asking you.
You don’t have to save anyone.
But if you have the chance —
give her a ride,
help carry a bag,
help lift a stroller.
Please, guys.
Especially Alpha.
With the resources you have — you run entire companies.
Make life a little easier for the girls.
Guys, gather all the important asses
and ask the girls what exactly would help.
They’ll tell you — and we’ll make it happen.
Guys,
girls need help.
You are power.
You are strength. 

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