Guys, women in this life do some strange things.
Stuff that doesn’t make sense at first glance.
But there is logic in it.
That’s what we hold onto.
Key.
Women are taught they’re supposed to “value themselves.”
Most of them don’t even know what that means — because their mothers never showed them.
And YouTube is packed with slightly unhinged women loudly preaching about what trash men are 😬
Yeah.
At least the girls are hearing something.
But the alpha?
Dramatic pause.
Nothing.
Here’s the point.
If after all our maneuvers, near-religious effort, and straight-up worship, a woman melts and becomes almost helpless —
Good.
That means she finally exhaled.
Now the alpha is actually the pillar.
I’m launching fireworks.
The boys are doing shots for speed.
The turkey got unlucky.
We’re carving it.
But.
Sometimes — and it’s awkward to admit —
Sometimes girls get out of line.
I mean really.
She gets more nervous.
More twitchy.
And she rides him even harder.
That, guys,
Is complete bullshit.
That gets killed at the root.
We sit down and say:
Before, it was like this.
Now it’s like this.
She nods.
We tell her we’re genuinely trying.
But somehow the result is the opposite.
She lifts her chin.
We do not call her names.
We breathe.
We don’t boil over.
We just breathe.
Guys, you cannot explode here.
The second one of us blows up, we’re finished.
She will weaponize it instantly against the alpha.
So we breathe.
There are two options.
Either she’s deeply wounded —
For example, the alpha hurt her badly once and she’s still carrying it.
Then we dig.
We get to the core.
Honestly, this is probably therapist territory.
Because I won’t be able to carry you through this if I’m not physically there.
You need to take it to a therapist and unpack it properly.
Key.
We do not yell:
“How long am I supposed to keep apologizing?”
“I already said I’m sorry!”
And all that garbage.
Because if that worked, she would’ve forgiven you already.
The wound is deeper.
And it’s time to deal with it.
Second option —
Maybe it’s time to divorce.
I’m serious, guys.
Not every marriage can be saved.
If she refuses contact,
The conversation is short.
But this is the last resort.
Before divorce, you try everything.
Because children are involved.
And children are sacred, guys.
Divorce without therapy?
Strictly no.

Now kids.
Especially teenagers.
These little bastards are the same everywhere.
Always unhappy in the evenings.
Walking around with faces like the world already betrayed them.
My position is simple:
Like it or not —
Shut up and eat.
I’m serious.
I’m done with it.
No:
“Well, we were like that too…”
“I understand, I went through it myself…”
And blah blah blah.
Hormones, no hormones —
I don’t care.
Objectively, who knows if we’re good parents or not.
Only time will tell.
But right now — at this moment —
We’re doing everything.
Absolutely everything for them.
If they dare not appreciate it,
Roll their eyes and mouth off —
They can pack their things and live on the street.
Key.
Teenagers are a complex system.
They need to be listened to —
If they actually have something real to say.
If they need help, support —
We’re there.
But contempt and disrespect?
That gets shut down hard.

Now about boys.
Modern mothers are terrified for their sons.
They don’t want them to grow up like their fathers.
With hard rules.
Like:
“Boys don’t cry.”
“Being weak is shameful.”
Yes.
But.
Guys — in the male world, that doesn’t work.
Like it or not,
That’s how the world is built.
The demands on men are different.
And a father’s job is to prepare his son for life.
And not let the mother raise him into a princess.
You sit down and tell her:
If she keeps going like this,
She’ll raise a spineless man.
And yes —
She’ll have to accept that her little angel will sometimes get punched.
That people won’t listen to him.
That nobody will care about his feelings.
That’s the male world.
It’s not that the father is a tyrant.
He’s preparing his son for reality.
If she still resists —
Bring real examples.
If he tries to discuss his feelings with a group of boys in a hallway,
They’ll knock his teeth out in that hallway.
Give her a few real-life examples
So she climbs out of the pink cloud and raises her hands.
And here’s the crucial part:
He raises the boy.
She doesn’t interfere.
Doesn’t interfere.

Separate topic — clothing.
Daughter.
Call me old-fashioned or not —
I don’t want to see that crap.
No tiny crop tops.
No bare stomachs.
No leggings tighter than an X-ray.
No.
She can say whatever she wants —
You don’t dress like that.
When she’s 30, we can discuss it.
Key.
This must be explained through the mother too.
It’s not about the daughter wanting to look cool and us not understanding her.
No.
It’s about the fact that not all boys read that as “cool.”
They read it as “available.”
As in — access is open.
And I don’t want someone pinning her somewhere
Hinting that he’s turned on.
And objectively she looks like a prostitute —
So it’s no surprise he reads it that way.
You explain to the mother:
Boys and men see the world differently.
They don’t read it as cute.
She’s sending the wrong signal.
She’s sending:
“I’m available. You can grab me. You can have me.”
That’s not acceptable.
Let her cry that she can’t dress how she wants.
Let her protest.
That’s her problem.
But looking like a prostitute?
Not happening.
So both mother and daughter dress properly —
Like it or not.
Because sometimes the mother dresses the same way —
Leggings glued to her body,
Tits hanging out.
If she needs more sex, she should say it directly.
But dressing like that? Not acceptable.
Even jeans sometimes fit so tight that — damn.
That’s not sexy.
That’s trashy.
What example is she setting for her daughter?
Shut it down, alpha.
Let them scream.
You don’t just slam your fist on the table —
You actually explain how people see it.
We know they’re decent women.
But damn it — you wouldn’t know that by looking at them.
Why the hell does she look like that?
No wonder he can’t even get hard.
Pff—ha! Hahaha.
Alright, alright.
Seriously though —
We need to talk to her about this too.
At least put on a dress.


Now separately.
Guys, we all know how much this woman loves her mens
But damn it — how do you go to a strip club and not make sure you’re protected?
Damn it 🤬
I specifically said — make sure the alpha won’t have problems afterward.
Guys.
What is this crap?
I don’t want you getting into trouble.
Now I almost feel like it’s my fault this happened.
Guys.
Don’t do that.
Give yourselves time.
Think first.
Organize it.
Then act.

And one more thing.
Guys.
Honestly.
I haven’t seen many real examples of truly good fathers.
In darkness, pain, trauma —
I’m a professional.
But.
We’re closing that chapter gradually.
The wounds will start to heal.
Not instantly.
Gradually.
The previous information needs to fully settle in.
Sink in.
After that — guys —
I honestly don’t know.
I can’t really guide you in this area.
I don’t know how to be a good father.
I can only describe how a woman sees a good father.
And that’s not the same thing.
Guys.