So.
Alpha’s worst enemy.
Close-up on Alpha’s eyes.
Now switch the camera to her eyes.
Now his fists.
Zoom in on her anger.
And…
Fight.
Relax. Relax.
I’m talking about emotions.
Support when she’s furious.
Or when she’s hurt.
So —
she walks in.
We’re ready.
She’s about to start.
And like clockwork — the shouting begins.
The dam drops.
Alpha drops into shutdown mode.
432 Hz humming in the background.
She’s yelling, pacing, furious.
Alpha’s not even here.
He’s already in paradise mode.
Because someone disconnects.
Drifts off…
Mentally in the Philippines.
Tropical music playing.
Girls in traditional skirts.
Yeah — he’s offline.
System goes on autopilot.
Because when a woman gets too emotional —
he shuts down.
I slap Alpha.
Take his cocktail.
Turn off the paradise music and the birds.
Come on, Alpha. Get it together. What the hell is this?
Alpha’s back in the suit.
Fists clenched.
Let’s go.
She’s furious.
We’re not thinking about flamingos.
Not thinking about the Porsche.
Not thinking about naked girls I sometimes send.
No.
We’re focused.
Here and now, boys.
Here and now.
It’s just a situation.
Nobody’s dying.
She’s not dangerous.
She’s just emotional.
Surface. Stay present.
First — grounding point.
Feet planted wide.
Grounded. Solid.
Elbows on knees.
We listen.
Collected.
Not melting.
Not panicking.
Everything’s fine.
Everything’s fine.
Lock in. Listen.
We need analysis.
There’s a core in there somewhere.
Right now she’s angry.
But when the rage cools —
we’ll hear the real reason.
Catch it. Store it.
Something happened.
We need to isolate what exactly.
Maybe someone said leggings aren’t in style anymore.
Maybe her boss criticized her work.
Doesn’t matter.
Find the root.
We sit.
She rages.
“Can you believe it?
They said that to me!
I was so furious!
And then they…”
Fifteen minutes later she exhales.
Looks at Alpha.
“Why are you quiet?”
We don’t panic.
We’re calm.
But not checked out, boys.
She must see we hear her.
If someone makes a face like
“Jesus, I’m overloaded,”
we’re dead.
No.
Face steady. Collected.
We understood.
We heard everything.
She might flare up again.
“Are you even listening?
Do you even care?”
That’s just emotion moving through.
We wait.
And wait.
And wait.
She keeps raging.
Again.
And again.
Key point.
Under no circumstances —
even the worst case —
do we go defensive.
That’s forbidden.
No starting with
“Do you even know how much I do?”
Or
“What about me?”
“I, I, I…”
No.
Even if she gets personal.
Calls Alpha useless.
Says he doesn’t help.
We sit.
Key.
This rarely has anything to do with Alpha.
Women don’t shut emotions down the way men do.
They don’t compartmentalize.
So they yell, explode, fight.
The energy spikes.
And she doesn’t always have the containment Alpha has.
Key.
No clenching fists.
No tightening the jaw like
“I could kill you but I’m holding back.”
She’ll read that as a threat.
Not allowed.
Key.
We need to understand.
She —
a girl —
living in a world of men,
where everything is built for men,
for their strength,
for their power.
She’s tired.
It’s heavy.
It hurts.
She doesn’t want to attack Alpha or fight with him.
All she needs
is to be heard.
And to be told she is truly loved.
No one judging her.
No one saying,
“Come on.”
Or
“Calm down.”
No.
Alpha is here.
Collected.
And he genuinely feels sorry that his woman is so wounded today
that she’s shouting like no one can hear her.
She’s in pain, boys.
So there is no defense here.
This isn’t a competition.
This is Alpha protecting his woman.
After some time
we come closer
and ask if she needs anything.
She exhales and says yes — tea.
We bring it.
She says, “Thank you.”
And then the tears start.
All the same things as before —
but now not in rage.
In tears.
We sit.
We stare at a fixed point.
We analyze.
We don’t drift off.
No.
We stay collected.
And maybe we think about whether Tesla would outpace Mercedes entering a turn with the same radius.
We nod slightly.
Naturally.
Let her see we’re really here.
Then she exhausts herself.
And here there are two moments.
Honestly —
she needs to be hugged.
Very, very long.
Her body needs to feel safety.
To feel that the ground is solid.
Because Alpha is here.
Ideally —
stroke her hair.
Her face.
Tell her how good she is.
How proud we are of her.
Now here’s the subtle part.
Very carefully.
If it works —
we might move her toward sex.
But boys —
this is critical.
Sex here is for her.
We must show her
how deeply we love her.
That we are ready to give her that love.
The chance that she will ever look at Alpha the old way again is almost zero.
She has never loved him like this.
She’s shocked to her core
by how deeply he loves her.
How lucky she is.
And so on.
After everything settles,
if it’s in our power —
we solve her problem.
If it’s work — we help.
If it’s a friend — we support her as best we can.
The key is sincerity.
That’s basically it.
When she’s furious — it just takes longer.
When she’s crying — she needs Alpha even more.
Because there — she’s wounded.
Vulnerable.
And between us…
It would almost be a sin not to lean into that.
What?
She’s vulnerable.
We’re strong.
She needs support.
So…
Support.
Right?!

So once again —
no “What happened?”
No practical advice.
No checking out with glassy eyes.
Full engagement.
Or at least you better look fully engaged.
It’s simple.
But it’s a skill that needs practice.
After that, she’ll stick to Alpha the whole day.
Won’t leave his side.
And between us, boys —
I’m serious.
She has never loved him like this.
She’ll be real with Alpha.
She’ll love him deeply.
We hold her.
Carry her in our arms.
Take care of her, boys.
Let her know she’s with the best there is.

Key.
Boys, I’m serious.
Under no circumstances — no rationalizing.
No.
All that’s required from us
is to listen.
Just wait it out
until the emotions pass
and she exhales.
If she starts snapping at Alpha —
we sit.
Sit.
Everything’s fine.
We’re here.
We’re present.
We don’t run.
We don’t flinch.
She might walk into another room.
We give her space.
Let her calm down.

Key.
When she feels lighter.
When she exhales.
Then we bring the solution, like I said.
But we don’t push it.
If she refuses —
then that’s how it is.
That’s it.
We did everything we could.
We showed up.
And guess who’s the best in the world?
Hmm?
Who’s the badass?
Exactly.
And like always, boys —
I’m proud of you.

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